I suppose I should, but I really don't. I gotta be me, people. If my future boss doesn't like me, I don't want to work for him/her anyway. So, I post what I think. I like what I like. I tweet what I think and I'm not always politically correct.
I'm a vegan, atheist, tree hugging, aging hippie. That's who I am online and it's who I am in real life.
Sometimes I laugh. Sometimes I cry. Sometimes I'm a real so and so. In other words, I'm a genuine person. I cut to the chase. I tell it like it is. When my Lupus hurts like holy hell, I say so. When I cut myself, I bleed all over the darn place.
I think it's silly to present yourself as anything other than what you are. After all, they're going to find out anyway. And guess what? When they do, you're out of there. Why?
They hired someone you're not. Now they know you're nothing but a big fat liar.
So, be yourself online people. It'll attract the kind of employers, followers and friends who like you, not some phony image you've cooked up for yourself. Sure, it'll take some time for you to get hired, but at least you won't get fired for misrepresentation.
Friday, July 17, 2020
Wednesday, October 31, 2018
Why I don't trash “bad” content
I write at least one post a month that
doesn't quite come together the way I expected. Maybe the title
doesn't fit. Maybe I took it in the wrong direction. Maybe I sound
like an exhausted, babbling idiot. Maybe the whole thing sounds like
a bunch of bologna. Whatever the reason, I never completely trash bad
content. Here's some of the things I do instead.
I take a second look.
Let's face it. At
the end of a long day, many things are not what they seem. The other
day, I wrote quite a few posts. The last one was not up to my
standards, or so I thought. After re-reading it, with a fresh
perspective in the morning, I decided it was the best thing I had
written all day.
Bad is in the eye of the beholder.
Sometimes I take a
second look at a potential post and I still hate it. When this
happens, I have a friend read it over before I trash it. It may be a
matter of perspective. One mans trash is another mans treasure, as
they say.
I file it instead of trashing it.
When I write a
post I don't particularly like and I don't have time to give it a
second look, I file it and come back to it later.
Salvaging the salvageable:
Sometimes I
change the title to fit my thoughts or vice-verse.
Sometimes a post sounds bad simply because it doesn't match the
title. So, I change the title. Or, change the post to fit the title.
The first is easier. The second is for when I'm really trying to make
a point. My thoughts may have wandered off in a different direction.
So, I write it again, keeping the title in mind.
Or I do a complete
re-write and publish both posts.
I
look for the good bits and pieces.
It can't be all bad, can it? When I do a re-write, I leave the original at the bottom of the page. As I write, I use the “good” parts my new post to save time.
It can't be all bad, can it? When I do a re-write, I leave the original at the bottom of the page. As I write, I use the “good” parts my new post to save time.
Sometimes, I use
the theme with a different angle.
Maybe I was going for something not expressed by the title or
the body. It happens. Then, I look for something in the main theme
that inspires me. I give it a new angle. I write about that. Then, I
can trash the old post, or....
Publish it
anyway
Just because I think the post I wrote
is crappy, doesn't mean it won't sell. My best selling post of all
time is something I thought was a bunch of gibberish. It could very
well be. It has, however, netted me a lot of page view money over the
years. So, what the heck? Sometimes I publish my “bad” content
anyway, as long as it's grammatically correct and properly
referenced. You never know what might come of it.
Tuesday, November 15, 2016
Why you should be flattered when writers use you for a jump off post
My friends, if you find yourself the
inspiration for an article, blog post, book or rant, please don't
take offense. All writers take material from their everyday world.
It's nothing personal. In fact, most of the time, it's not even about
what you said, but what you inspired them to consider.
Be flattered that your opinion means
something to someone. Be happy that someone's listening. Be assured
that even if a writer disagrees completely with what you have said,
they value your opinion enough to talk about it.
And speaking personally, as that
famous quote suggests, but in simpler terms, I will defend your right
to say what you feel, no matter how screwed up I happen to think it
is.
Inspiring a writer to think isn't as
easy as it seems. Give yourself some credit.
Speaking personally, again:
I've written about every subject under
the sun at this point. So, if your thought process presents an avenue
I haven't yet taken, you should be flattered. No, really, you should.
Even if I'm dissing you, calling you on your bull-crap or reacting
negatively to your views, that means I value your thoughts.
Think about it. I'm a writer. Taking
ideas from life is kind of what I do. So, don't be insulted if
something you say inspires me to express my own thoughts on the
subject. In fact, you should expect me to. It's nothing personal.
It's my job. I'm always looking for things to write about. And the
fact that what you said or did or posted inspired me says a lot about
you.
The same goes for the majority of
writers out there, I'm sure.
You should be flattered that your
subject is the one I chose to write about out of the thousands of
subjects I consider addressing every day.
Thanks for the inspiration!
Effective time management for online writers
Having a time schedule for writing
may sound strange or silly to those new to the game. Writing online
seems like a very easy going lifestyle to those who aren't in it.
Those of us who have been at it for a few years or even a few months
know better. There's so much more to consider when writing for a
living than the writing itself.
Promoting your work is time
consuming.
In fact, it takes just as much time
as writing. It's not enough to post links on social networks when you
first publish your work. If you want to be successful, you have to
look for opportunities to promote your older work too. Expect to
spend at least a couple hours daily just getting your links out there
where people can see them. Plus, there's much more to it than that.
Leave time to support other online writers.
Since these people read your articles, it's only fair to read and promote theirs. Why focus on your own work all the time? It's certainly more interesting to hear other viewpoints and subjects than your own.
Social networking is vital.
Writing online often means being paid per click, ad view or page view. Obviously, it's very important to schedule time to promote articles through social networking. Still, the true value in social networking lies in creating friendships with fellow writers. Other writers are a great source of inspiration, tips, support and more.
Education keeps online writing quality in check.
Schedule time to learn more about producing articles that are well written and search engine optimized. Quality writing is the only writing that sells. Each day the online writer must schedule time to learn more about their craft. Online writing is just like any business in this respect. Writers must hone their skills if they wish to remain a member of the online writing community in good standing.
Consider your personal style and needs
When making up your writing schedule, consider the most important person in your day. It's you! Your writing habits, strengths and weaknesses all determine how you spend your writing day. For instance, I work better in the morning, early in the week, whereas, some of my writer friends work better in the midnight hours or under deadline pressure.
Personal considerations:
- Where and when do you prefer to write?
- Where and when are you most productive?
- Do you work better alone or with plenty of company?
- Is there a certain individual who invariably distracts you
from writing?
When my partner's home, I'd much rather spend time with him than write. So, I do my work when he's at his job. This has the added bonus of giving us both the same days off so we can spend more time together. Is there anything more annoying than having someone you're trying to spend time with occupied online? I think not. So, when you schedule your writing hours, keep the people who care about you in mind as well.
Writing for my audience and ignoring the naysayers
As I mentioned in my last post, my way of life and my writing are unconventional. I'm
well aware of that. I don't follow social norms or do things just
because that's the way they've always been done. I try my best to
base my actions on fact, not habit, rumors or doctrine.
Those of you who read my posts know
that I have recently vowed to stop defending myself. This is a
revelation toward that end. After answering some recent comments, I
realized that I'm answering comments from naysayers as if they were
the people I direct my articles to. They're not.
My articles are directed to people who
are not so set in their ways that they ignore evidence in favor of
old habits that refuse to die.
Please understand that I mean no
offense by this statement. We are all subject to human nature, part
of which is adherence to our beloved comfort zones. I'm no exception
to the rule. In fact, I'm constantly trying to wriggle out of my own
habits and comfort zones in order to remain open to new ideas.
Admittedly, it's sometimes a losing battle, but I do try.
Anyway.... The point is that I am now
extending my offense, not defense strategy to the comment section of
my articles.
I will no longer be defending my point
of view to trolls who attack my way of life or express opinions
different from my own. Why? Because it's not productive. These are
people who will never change, despite evidence that indicates they
should. They are set in their ways, with lead shoes on their feet and
wearing ear muffs. There's no point wearing out my fingertips trying
to explain my choices to them.
Instead, I will focus on writing
factual and/or funny articles for those who either agree with me or
are open minded enough to at least consider my viewpoint seriously.
You know, those who do not read my
articles with the intent to bash me already set in their heads.
Now, don't get me wrong, I love all my
readers. I'm just choosing to direct my articles to a more receptive
audience.
Naysayers are still more than welcome
to read them. I love hearing opposing viewpoints. It gives me article
fodder, as well as making me think.
I'm simply not defending myself to
naysayers in the comment section or making them the focus of my
article subjects. It's a waste of time and energy. Instead, I will
focus on those people who are truly interested in what I have to say.
Personal growth makes me giddy. How
about you?
Eliminate Facebook comment wars with interest pages
What's the most common problem people
have on Facebook? Well, among my friends, it's comment wars. I've
been a victim of them. I've been in the thick of them. Heck, I've
even caused them. In fact, they used to frustrate me so much, I
would write about them daily. I'm writing about them now. Are you at
your wits end with negative Facebook comments on your cause posts?
Have you considered making or liking some interest pages to keep
animosity to a minimum?
I'm a shining example of
non-conformity.
I'm not saying this to get attention or
to brag. It's just who I am. I'm a card carrying, vegan leaning,
tree-hugger. I'm an atheist, an animal activist and a liberal. I
speak out for gay rights and gun control. I'm a minimalist and an
extreme organic gardener. I campaign against GMO's in our food. I
detest large corporation subsidies and loopholes. So, as you can
imagine, I am responsible for a lot of Facebook comment wars. That
is, I seem to inspire them. I wonder why?
Believe it or not, I don't enjoy
arguing on Facebook.
I don't have time for it. I have work
to do. What I do enjoy is keeping people informed on the subjects
that interest me. I like to post a few things, possibly have a laugh
or two, maybe enjoy an enlightening conversation, then go back to
writing. It just doesn't ever seem to work out that way. I have a
really wide variety of friends with an even wider variety of
interests. That fact is the whole reason for posting my pet subjects
on pages for my like minded Facebook friends
My most recent experience with
comment wars:
It may sound like
nothing. I was getting incredibly tired of bacon comments on
my vegan oriented posts. You see, I don't think of pigs as bacon. I
think of them as fellow animals who are getting a rough deal. You
don't have to agree with me to see the problem. To make a long story
short, negative comments were making my stomach turn and my heart
ache on a daily basis. It upset me so much, it was keeping me from
doing my job. When I asked my friends to respect my sensitive nature,
it started a whole landslide of comment wars.
It was then that
I realized, I was talking to the hand.
What is the point
of hammering something into someone's head, over and over if they're
just not interested? There is no point. It's absolutely
futile.
I also realized
I was not merely an innocent bystander.
I can be pretty
opinionated when it comes to my passions. Not only that, I enjoy
posting sarcastic memes. It gives me a chuckle and gets me through
the day. Unfortunately, some of my friends don't find my sarcasm
funny. Well, I certainly know how that feels. I don't want to be that
person. I don't want to bring my friends down. I want to lift them
up. So, rather than posting my slightly “snarky” vegan posts on
my news feed, I found several vegan interest pages to post them on.
By posting my
vegan stuff on vegan pages, I don't have to worry about offending
anyone. We're all on the same page. Pardon the pun.
I also don't have
to put up with those bacon comments or endure hour long comment wars
with my fellow writers. As you can imagine, writers can rattle off
some pretty elaborate (not to mention stinging) jabs and comments.
All the more reason for using or creating interest pages.
Do you have an uncommon interest?
Do you tire of
promoting and explaining your causes to Facebook friends who have no
interest in them? Are you trying to keep the peace in the comment
section? If so, you might consider creating a page or two of your
own. Just click on pages. It's on the left side of your news feed
(home). Once you click, you'll see a button for creating your page.
Click that too. Facebook will walk you right through the process of
creating your own interest page.
Not into managing interest pages?
Just like a few
that align with your beliefs and allow you to post away for those who
agree with you and can relate.
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Keeping ego out of your online writing
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Just admit it, you're no Shakespeare anyway. LOL |
If you're like me, you're not too fond
of snobbish, perfectionist writers. Now, I have my pet causes, my pet
peeves and my long winded rants, for sure. Don't we all? That's not
what I'm talking about when I use the term “egotistical” in
reference to writers.
I'm talking about those writers who are
constantly trying to impress you with their big brains. I usually get
about three sentences into their articles and click off. I know all
the big words. Language Arts are kind of my thing, you know? I even read actual books sometimes. (Gasp!)
I just
don't like those big words shoved down my throat like a spoonful of
unwanted peas. Yes, even if I like the peas. And I'm not the only
one.
One of the first things I learned about
writing online has served me well consistently over the years. What
is it? Write on an eighth grade level. Now, that's not because your
readers are stupid. It's because they don't have time for your silly,
self centered, big worded, headache promoting, requires too much thought for the time they have passages.
Sorry if that offended anyone. It's
natural to try to impress with your writing. I do it myself on
occasion. Maybe I'm doing it now, to a certain extent. Still, the
whole point of online writing is to entertain and/or provide an
answer to your reader's questions, not to rival Shakespeare. Online
readers are looking for a chuckle or quick answers in an easily
understood format. That's it.
The point is that your readers don't
care how eloquent you are. They just want to skim your article, find
the information they came for and move on. Leave your inflated ego
out of it if you want to be read. Simply put, it's not that tough to
write for an online audience. Pomp and circumstance aren't really
necessary here.
Just be easy to read and you'll be
read!
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