As I mentioned in my last post, my way of life and my writing are unconventional. I'm
well aware of that. I don't follow social norms or do things just
because that's the way they've always been done. I try my best to
base my actions on fact, not habit, rumors or doctrine.
Those of you who read my posts know
that I have recently vowed to stop defending myself. This is a
revelation toward that end. After answering some recent comments, I
realized that I'm answering comments from naysayers as if they were
the people I direct my articles to. They're not.
My articles are directed to people who
are not so set in their ways that they ignore evidence in favor of
old habits that refuse to die.
Please understand that I mean no
offense by this statement. We are all subject to human nature, part
of which is adherence to our beloved comfort zones. I'm no exception
to the rule. In fact, I'm constantly trying to wriggle out of my own
habits and comfort zones in order to remain open to new ideas.
Admittedly, it's sometimes a losing battle, but I do try.
Anyway.... The point is that I am now
extending my offense, not defense strategy to the comment section of
my articles.
I will no longer be defending my point
of view to trolls who attack my way of life or express opinions
different from my own. Why? Because it's not productive. These are
people who will never change, despite evidence that indicates they
should. They are set in their ways, with lead shoes on their feet and
wearing ear muffs. There's no point wearing out my fingertips trying
to explain my choices to them.
Instead, I will focus on writing
factual and/or funny articles for those who either agree with me or
are open minded enough to at least consider my viewpoint seriously.
You know, those who do not read my
articles with the intent to bash me already set in their heads.
Now, don't get me wrong, I love all my
readers. I'm just choosing to direct my articles to a more receptive
audience.
Naysayers are still more than welcome
to read them. I love hearing opposing viewpoints. It gives me article
fodder, as well as making me think.
I'm simply not defending myself to
naysayers in the comment section or making them the focus of my
article subjects. It's a waste of time and energy. Instead, I will
focus on those people who are truly interested in what I have to say.
Personal growth makes me giddy. How
about you?
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